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Happy Ending Massage
The truth of the matter is far more women receive erotic or
sensual massages than the public is aware of.
This massage can focus on certain areas like the breasts, lower abdomen,
inner thighs near his/her private parts.
Logically, anything
that increases blood flow to the pelvis increases sensitivity, arousal.
First Back massage:"At
first you're on your stomach, so they're just massaging your back, Lightly
caress your S.O.'s neck, shoulders, arms, back, and buttocks with your
fingertips for at least
five minutes.
Second Front Massage:" Then they turn you over. [My masseur]
started massaging my breasts. My nipples got erect, so that must have sent him
a signal. Nipple play is also important. "Nipple stimulation is processed in the same region of the brain as
touch to the clitoris and penis, so lightly stimulating the area around the
nipple (the areola) on both men and women can be very stimulating," says
Laino. "It will increase blood flow to both the nipples and to the genital
area. And don't forget the abs! This is a hot spot for both men and
women—especially the area between the belly button and genitals, says Laino.
"Massaging this area can make the pelvic floor muscles contract," she
says. That sends blood flow straight to the genitals, she says.
He started rubbing me on the pressure points
around my hips. Giving his or her inner thighs a rubdown. "The inner thighs, for ladies and gents, are very sensitive because
they're so close to the genitals. He never actually touched my clitoris or vagina; it was just all around the area. This guy was a master of temptation. He would
get oh so close, closer... and then back away.
My legs spread
apart almost involuntarily as I waited for him to start the sexy part.
Ok, now that your S.O. is primed and ready, onto the good stuff:
For Him
Warm up some massage oil by rubbing it with both hands, then spread it all over
his penis and testicles. Place one
hand on the shaft of his penis, and start stroking it in an up and down motion,
says Cadell. Meanwhile, use the other hand to gently roll his testicles in your
palm. Do this in slow-mo for at least a few minutes.
Next, gently rub his penis
with both hands as if rubbing a stick to make a fire, then gradually segue into
a corkscrew motion, where one hand twists up while
the other twists down.
Now concentrate on massaging his penis from top to bottom, covering the head
and sliding your hands down to the base—one after another—in a fluid motion.
"Do this for about 10 strokes and don't be surprised if he suddenly
climaxes because this stroke makes him feel like he's inside a wet
vagina," says Cadell. Me. Ow.
For
Her
"On the female genitals, it's best to switch to a water-based lubricant because if oil gets inside the vagina,
it can cause irritation," says Cadell. Make sure to warm the lube with
your hands first before placing them in her vagina. Nearly 50 percent of
men and women who have used lube say that it makes it easier to have an orgasm
Start by focusing on the vulva, which is the outside visible
area of the vagina, says Cadell. Gently rub the lube around her vaginal lips
all the way down to her anus.
Gently part her outer lips
with both of your thumbs, caressing them in circular motions for at least two
minutes. Slide your thumbs up and down her outer lips until they're spread
apart, then do the same with her inner lips. "The inner lips are more
sensitive, so use less pressure," says Cadell. "Watch for her body
language and for the swelling of her vaginal lips, which is a natural
progression when a woman gets aroused."
Finally, gently slide your
thumb and forefinger up and down the sides of the clitoris for about 10 strokes. Massage the head
of the clitoris in circular motions using your forefinger and thumb. "You
may feel it growing as it becomes more excited, and with the clitoris
containing about 8,000 nerve fibers, don't be surprised if she has a
body-melting, earth-shattering orgasm," says Cadell. Game. Set. Match.
Source of the article:: http://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/how-to-give-happy-ending-massage
How to Give
Your Wife a Body Massage
WHAT YOUR WIFE WANT FROM YOU IN
BEDROOM.
Men, to experience and share great sex with your wife, be
sure to use some of these sexual foreplay tips. There is an art to foreplay.
Don’t just grab and squeeze, or head straight for her privates.
Foreplay is not about...
1.
Kissing
2.
Breasts and
3.
Intercourse .... all in five
minutes!
In actuality, foreplay is really about
courting and wooing your wife’s sensual responses and sexual arousal.
Before we get into the tips and suggestions, let’s review
the all important basics of foreplay:
1.
Foreplay is part of the preparation
phase of lovemaking.
2.
Foreplay is focusing on helping your
wife come to sexual arousal.
3.
Foreplay must not be rushed. Spend
at least 20 to 30 minutes on foreplay.
Okay, let’s get to the “mechanics”of foreplay…
Sexual Foreplay Tips to Use BEFORE You’re in the Bedroom
·
kiss her gently in public
·
touch her face and stroke her hair
·
tell her you love her
·
tell her she’s beautiful
Tips to Use When WARMING UP!
·
slowly start undressing her
·
give her tender kisses on
the lips
·
gently stroke her face
·
take time to give her a full body or
shoulder massage
·
gently caress all parts of her body
(not just the typical “sexual” parts)
·
whisper and tell her how beautiful
she is and how good she feels
·
kiss her softly all over her body
·
interlace your fingers with hers
·
caress her tummy (don’t tickle
though!)
·
touch and fondle her
·
keep talking about how much you love
her (unless you’re kissing)
·
try to discover new touch points on
her body that are sensitive and bring sexual arousal
·
keep looking at her
Foreplay Tips to Use as Things GET HOT!
·
begin more passionate kissing (don’t
underestimate this tip!)
·
start faster stroking and caressing
of her body
·
include full body embracing
·
start oral stimulation such as
licking and sucking
·
begin to caress her inner thighs
·
continue telling her all the ways
you think she’s gorgeous and how much she excites you
·
squeeze and stroke her body
FINAL Sexual Foreplay Tips
·
move your hands from the top of her
body all the way down until they reach between her legs
·
listen to your wife’s verbal cues…
is she feeling discomfort or pleasure?
·
use lubricant to begin stroking her
vagina and clitoris
·
gently massage her outer vaginal
lips
·
pay attention to your wife’s body
language; is she beginning to respond?
·
ask your wife to tell you what feels
good to her
·
reach up to her breasts
·
kiss her passionately all over her
body
·
massage her inner thighs
·
stimulate her clitoris until she
lets you know she’s ready for intercourse or ready to orgasm
·
don’t forget to keep talking to her;
tell her how much you enjoy her body
Using these foreplay ideas will bring great benefits to you
and your wife’s sexual relationship including:
·
increased awareness of your wife’s
body and how she responds
·
great orgasm experience for both you
and her
·
closer emotional intimacy as you
focus on your wife’s sexual needs
So, remember:
1.
Start Slow and Gentle
2.
Speak Lovingly
3.
Don’t Rush
4.
Use Lubricant
5.
Better Discover How She Responds
Sex is more than
intercourse. It’s touching. It’s playing. It’s feeling wonderful! It’s being
even more intimate.
A woman's largest erogenous zone is her mind, with his words
and actions being the ultimate tools for effective foreplay.
It is her pleasure that should be your focus, not
yours!
She wants passion, Effort, Attention, Body
massage and a lot of kissing.
Make foreplay something that you do
together, not something that he does to you. Miller & Byers found that men and women
desire the same length of foreplay—18 minutes to be exact.
Woman, Take the reigns :The key is taking the initiative. In other words, you need to
kiss your husband first before he gets a chance to kiss you..
Show him your naked body: You naked is probably the hottest gift you can give your man. Allow him to
soak up the sight instead of killing the lights because you feel your belly\'s
not flat enough or your breasts are too small. “Men’s brain chemistry changes
when they’re presented with a sexy image,” says an expert, “so flaunting your
body will make his desire climb.”Push him down on the bed and
straddle him! tease him by twisting your naked body over him in different
directions, arching your back, and letting your breasts graze his face and
chest, rubbing your vagina over his body,sitting on his lap,
Guide his hands over your "hot" spots
showing him just how you like to be touched. Tell him what you want. He said that women
make the first move by asking him to touch their breasts or butt, or sometimes
the women literally move his hands to their body parts that need a little extra
attention.
Massage can be a
HUGE part of foreplay and can be the most crucial part to pleasing your wife in
the bedroom.
Tell her to get naked, and lie down on the bed face down, When massaging your wife, sit on her bum. This
will REALLY turn her on
BACK FIRST::Rub
her Neck, Arm, back, hips, Thigh and finally the Foot for the first 15
minutes. Move
your hands slowly and confidently along her legs and buttocks, encouraging
blood flow to her most intimate of areas – the more blood that flows to her
vaginal area the more intense her sensations, sensitivity, lubrication and
ultimate satisfaction will be.
FRONT SECOND: Ask her to turn over slowly with her eyes
closed and begin massaging her breasts, stomach, arms and legs. Spend 2 to 3
minutes on each of the body parts. Touching
a woman's nipples, releases oxytocin, a bonding hormone.Suck her boobs,she
loves it.
FINALLY THE VAGINA: With her body massaged
and fully relaxed, you can now massage her vagina and the surrounding areas
slowly.
Now sit between her legs. Enjoy
the sensation of touching your wife, watching the beauty of her yoni, watching
her body respond.
While you do this, put your other hand in her
heart area.
hold her
yoni lips between your fingers and slide up and down, holding her lips between
your fingers and thumbs.
With one finger, stroke down from her pubic
bone, between her lips, over her clit, between her inner lips, over the opening
of her yoni to the perineum.
Then put two fingers on either side of the hood of her clit, stroke up and
down, one up, one down, gently squeeze her clit between your fingers. With one
fingertip on the head of her clit, FEATHERLIGHT, make circles, stroke up and down, across.
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Subject: NEW RULES FOR MARRAIGETHE HUSBAND -WIFE RELATIONSHIP
An Artcle by Shobha De:
The truth aboout marriage is that there are no answers. Its the most complex realtionship on EARTH.
Marraige will always be into FAMILIES,rather than to individuals.You cant eliminate family,that is what society requires. Today, marraige is all about a balancing act between children,friends,parents,career and the sometimes overpowering need to curl up in your own private space.
Give marraige sufficient TIME.
TOLERANCE is a must for any relationship to work.
COMMITMENT means one needs to give in sufficiently for a relationship to work.
