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Make love often. This is a tough one to do in a relationship because work, kids, and household chores don't always leave time and energy for sex with your partner. But, sex is important in a relationship and should be made a priority. Try making a plan to make love at least twice a week: once during the week and once on the weekend. Stick to this as best you can so that you and your partner know that when to expect intimacy. While this isn't always romantic, you can make it so by turning on some soft music, lighting candles, or taking a bubble bath together. Making love will keep you and your partner close and keep the relationship new and exciting. Without sex, a relationship becomes dull and partners become more like roommates than lovers. It's important to make sex a priority so that both partners feel a connection to one another. By making love at least twice a week, you'll keep the spark a live and help your relationship to become exciting and new again.
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So what's the solution? "If it's a case of physical fatigue, couples should engage in scheduled sex. They must plan weekend getaways or make arrangements to leave the child with a babysitter or relatives and plan a night out where they could probably get home early from work and then just concentrate on spending time with each other. If it's an issue of emotional distancing, communication is the only solution. Couples need to talk things out with each other in a non-toxic way," says Dr Minnu.
1.
Sex helps your heart: Having sex at least twice a week will heavily reduce your chances of
having a heart attack and helps maintain a healthy heart.
2.
Sex relieves stress and tension: This is because the feel good hormones –
endorphins and oxytocin – are released during sex.
3.
Sex relieves pain:
Studies show that after you orgasm, the hormones released will actually help
stop your pain; headaches or any other body pains.
4.
Sex makes you feel and look great: The more sex you have the more hormones like
testosterone and estrogen are released into the body and this helps keep your
body looking young and fresh. If you want softer skin and shiny hair,
then estrogen is your answer.
5.
Sex helps you sleep better : A relaxed sex session, which results in an
orgasm, will release the hormone prolactin. This is the hormone that is heavily
linked to a good night sleep.
6.
Sex fights disease:
People who have frequent sex have a higher level of an antibody called
immunoglobulin A (IgA). According to research, these antibodies help combat
diseases
The missionary position. Or man-on-top is said to be the position that's best for getting pregnant. This is because this particular position allows for the deepest possible penetration, making it possible for the sperm to get deposited closest to the cervix. place her legs over your shoulders. This shortens her vaginal canal, so your penis feels bigger inside her.
Raise the hips. Elevating the hips, which can be done by placing a pillow behind her, can also be helpful because this exposes the female cervix to as much semen as the male can release.
Orgasms. Finally, while this has nothing to do with sexual positions, there are also researches that suggest the importance of the female orgasm in conceiving. According to studies, female orgasm leads to contractions that could push sperm up into the cervix. The lesson: have fun while trying to conceive.
30% more chances of conception every month if a couple engages in unprotected sex at least two times a week.
Sexual foreplay-Tips to help arouse her
Warm up some massage oil by rubbing it with both hands, then spread it all over his penis and testicles. Place one hand on the shaft of his penis, and start stroking it in an up and down motion, says Cadell. Meanwhile, use the other hand to gently roll his testicles in your palm. Do this in slow-mo for at least a few minutes.
"On the female genitals, it's best to switch to a water-based lubricant because if oil gets inside the vagina, it can cause irritation," says Cadell. Make sure to warm the lube with your hands first before placing them in her vagina. Nearly 50 percent of men and women who have used lube say that it makes it easier to have an orgasm
WHAT YOUR WIFE WANT FROM YOU IN BEDROOM.
Men, to experience and share great sex with your wife, be sure to use some of these sexual foreplay tips. There is an art to foreplay. Don’t just grab and squeeze, or head straight for her privates.
Foreplay is not about...
1. Kissing
2. Breasts and
3. Intercourse .... all in five minutes!
In actuality, foreplay is really about courting and wooing your wife’s sensual responses and sexual arousal.
Before we get into the tips and suggestions, let’s review the all important basics of foreplay:
1. Foreplay is part of the preparation phase of lovemaking.
2. Foreplay is focusing on helping your wife come to sexual arousal.
3. Foreplay must not be rushed. Spend at least 20 to 30 minutes on foreplay.
Okay, let’s get to the “mechanics”of foreplay…
Sexual Foreplay Tips to Use BEFORE You’re in the Bedroom
· kiss her gently in public
· touch her face and stroke her hair
· tell her you love her
· tell her she’s beautiful
Tips to Use When WARMING UP!
· slowly start undressing her
· gently stroke her face
· gently caress all parts of her body (not just the typical “sexual” parts)
· whisper and tell her how beautiful she is and how good she feels
· kiss her softly all over her body
· interlace your fingers with hers
· caress her tummy (don’t tickle though!)
· touch and fondle her
· keep talking about how much you love her (unless you’re kissing)
· try to discover new touch points on her body that are sensitive and bring sexual arousal
· keep looking at her
Foreplay Tips to Use as Things GET HOT!
· begin more passionate kissing (don’t underestimate this tip!)
· start faster stroking and caressing of her body
· include full body embracing
· start oral stimulation such as licking and sucking
· begin to caress her inner thighs
· continue telling her all the ways you think she’s gorgeous and how much she excites you
· squeeze and stroke her body
FINAL Sexual Foreplay Tips
· move your hands from the top of her body all the way down until they reach between her legs
· listen to your wife’s verbal cues… is she feeling discomfort or pleasure?
· use lubricant to begin stroking her vagina and clitoris
· gently massage her outer vaginal lips
· pay attention to your wife’s body language; is she beginning to respond?
· ask your wife to tell you what feels good to her
· reach up to her breasts
· kiss her passionately all over her body
· massage her inner thighs
· stimulate her clitoris until she lets you know she’s ready for intercourse or ready to orgasm
· don’t forget to keep talking to her; tell her how much you enjoy her body
Using these foreplay ideas will bring great benefits to you and your wife’s sexual relationship including:
· increased awareness of your wife’s body and how she responds
· great orgasm experience for both you and her
· closer emotional intimacy as you focus on your wife’s sexual needs
So, remember:
1. Start Slow and Gentle
2. Speak Lovingly
3. Don’t Rush
4. Use Lubricant
5. Better Discover How She Responds
ITS ALL ABOUT HER CLITORIS.READ ALL THE FOLLOWING ARTICLES ON CLITORIS.
http://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/touch-her/slide/17
How to make love to your wife in islam and Science.
http://saleemindia.blogspot.in/2016/03/how-to-make-love-to-your-wife-in-islam.html
The above article is collected from the following resources
1. http://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2013/10/women-need-foreplay-do-husbands-understand/
2.http://www.yourtango.com/experts/sean-jameson/foreplay-tips
3.http://www.idiva.com/photogallery-relationships/25-foreplay-ideas-your-man-will-love/12463
4.http://www.examiner.com/article/what-women-want-the-best-foreplay-for-women
5.http://www.mensfitness.com/women/sex-tips/10-moves-she-wants-you-make-during-foreplay
6.http://www.theproblemismen.com/rants/what-women-really-want-in-the-bedroom
7.http://www.hitchedmag.com/article.php?id=670
8.http://www.redbookmag.com/love-sex/sex/advice/a5046/get-more-foreplay/
20-something
Most guys just can't stop dreaming about sex every couple of hours. At this age, girls are usually rebellious in their sexual imaginations. They share same-sex fantasies or want to try out bi-sexuality. A 2006 study of nearly 2000 people discovered that 76 per cent of women who slept with women reached orgasm (for women with men, the figure stands at 50 per cent).
The 20s are the time when young boys and girls are most experimental in their sexual positions. One in 10 people claims Tracey Cox have had a threesome in their early twenties.
Also, people in this age group have most likely visited a strip joint or a lapdancing club - with their friends or their better half.
30 something
The 30s are a time to experiment, almost all 30-somethings claim to have had sex outdoors. Unlike the teens when making out was the most common form of sexual experimentation, most 30 somethings prefer having sex somewhere semi-public like the beach, in the garden or on a park bench in the darkness. There's something wildly erotic about these sexapades! Also, high on the 30 something popularity chart are having sex in the shower or in the bath tub.
Kinky pleasures also rate high as most 30 plus couples claim to be giving in to their fantasies of bondage, blindfolds and spanking on a weekend of debauchery.
This is also the time when women are most likely to befriend gay male pals. Straight women love gay men; gay men love straight women. Swedish research is confirming just why the two groups get along so famously - they both have symmetrical brains. Straight men and lesbians have asymmetrical brain hemispheres.
The 30s also mark the arrival of children in a married couple's life, so the sex drive naturally dwindles. But, Cox points out that during pregnancy, couples have sex four to five times a month. Most put the brakes on their sex lives for about seven weeks after delivery, but four months later are back to four or five times of sex a month. Cox says six months after delivery, the average couple goes back to having sex three to five times a month. But incase you don't fit the bill, remember getting disheartened ain't gonna help. Remember it's just a temporary period, so continue touching and cuddling and if your baby robs you of chances to have sex, indulge in quickies.
Most women says Cox in her book experience higher orgasm rates. Ninety per cent of women past 30 regularly experience orgasm, compared to just 23 per cent of younger women.
40 something
Men in their 40s are more likely to experience erection problems. Also, this is the age when maximum number of men tend to be unfaithful. Also, men are more compelled in their 40s to watch more porn or indulge in sex chats. Women on the other hand get sexually very demanding, often being attracted to younger men.
If you thought the 40s were about low libido, think again, while 40-somethings maybe having less sex than ever, the thrust has shifted from how many times in a week to an emphasis on better quality. You are more sure of your sexual needs in this age group and thus more likely to insist on passion play as opposed to a mere making out session.
Read more: http://saleemindia.blogspot.com/2009/07/sex-guide-according-to-your-age.html#ixzz5R5LNb5BI
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How to make love to your wife in islam and Science.
The above article is collected from the following resources
1. http://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2013/10/women-need-foreplay-do-husbands-understand/
2.http://www.yourtango.com/experts/sean-jameson/foreplay-tips
3.http://www.idiva.com/photogallery-relationships/25-foreplay-ideas-your-man-will-love/12463
4.http://www.examiner.com/article/what-women-want-the-best-foreplay-for-women
5.http://www.mensfitness.com/women/sex-tips/10-moves-she-wants-you-make-during-foreplay
6.http://www.theproblemismen.com/rants/what-women-really-want-in-the-bedroom
7.http://www.hitchedmag.com/article.php?id=670
8.http://www.redbookmag.com/love-sex/sex/advice/a5046/get-more-foreplay/
Most guys just can't stop dreaming about sex every couple of hours. At this age, girls are usually rebellious in their sexual imaginations. They share same-sex fantasies or want to try out bi-sexuality. A 2006 study of nearly 2000 people discovered that 76 per cent of women who slept with women reached orgasm (for women with men, the figure stands at 50 per cent).
The 20s are the time when young boys and girls are most experimental in their sexual positions. One in 10 people claims Tracey Cox have had a threesome in their early twenties.
Also, people in this age group have most likely visited a strip joint or a lapdancing club - with their friends or their better half.
30 something
The 30s are a time to experiment, almost all 30-somethings claim to have had sex outdoors. Unlike the teens when making out was the most common form of sexual experimentation, most 30 somethings prefer having sex somewhere semi-public like the beach, in the garden or on a park bench in the darkness. There's something wildly erotic about these sexapades! Also, high on the 30 something popularity chart are having sex in the shower or in the bath tub.
Kinky pleasures also rate high as most 30 plus couples claim to be giving in to their fantasies of bondage, blindfolds and spanking on a weekend of debauchery.
This is also the time when women are most likely to befriend gay male pals. Straight women love gay men; gay men love straight women. Swedish research is confirming just why the two groups get along so famously - they both have symmetrical brains. Straight men and lesbians have asymmetrical brain hemispheres.
The 30s also mark the arrival of children in a married couple's life, so the sex drive naturally dwindles. But, Cox points out that during pregnancy, couples have sex four to five times a month. Most put the brakes on their sex lives for about seven weeks after delivery, but four months later are back to four or five times of sex a month. Cox says six months after delivery, the average couple goes back to having sex three to five times a month. But incase you don't fit the bill, remember getting disheartened ain't gonna help. Remember it's just a temporary period, so continue touching and cuddling and if your baby robs you of chances to have sex, indulge in quickies.
Most women says Cox in her book experience higher orgasm rates. Ninety per cent of women past 30 regularly experience orgasm, compared to just 23 per cent of younger women.
40 something
Men in their 40s are more likely to experience erection problems. Also, this is the age when maximum number of men tend to be unfaithful. Also, men are more compelled in their 40s to watch more porn or indulge in sex chats. Women on the other hand get sexually very demanding, often being attracted to younger men.
If you thought the 40s were about low libido, think again, while 40-somethings maybe having less sex than ever, the thrust has shifted from how many times in a week to an emphasis on better quality. You are more sure of your sexual needs in this age group and thus more likely to insist on passion play as opposed to a mere making out session.
Read more: http://saleemindia.blogspot.com/2009/07/sex-guide-according-to-your-age.html#ixzz5R5LNb5BI
Under Creative Commons License: Attribution