'' Winners make things happen - Losers let things happen.

Many of us have 'grass-is-greener-on-the-other-side-syndrome'. We hear a friends story and think, "Why couldn't I have that", or, worse "I wish my husband/children could be like her husband/children". The truth of the matter is not only about gratefullness. It's about being happy with your choices, and realistic about your feelings. Being unhappy about life is easy, it takes a bit of effort to make the things in your own life seem better to you, and it starts with realising what is important.
I hope the following poem will help you to appreciate what you have, AND find the happiness in it:
Someone will always be prettier.
Someone will always be smarter.
Some of their houses will be bigger.
Some will drive a better car.
Their children will do better in school.
And their husband will fix more things around the house.
So let it go, and love you and your circumstances.
Think about it!
The prettiest woman in the world can have hell in her heart.
The most highly favored woman on your job may be unable to have children.
The richest woman you know, she's got the car, the house, the clothes - might be lonely.
So, love who you are.
Look in the mirror in the morning and smile and say, "I am too Blessed to be Stressed and too Anointed, to be Disappointed!'' Winners make things happen - Losers let things happen.