Have you been trying to conceive, but ended up feeling completely demoralised at the non results? For a lot of couples desperate to have a child,
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sex has been reduced to a high stress zone where the goal is ovulation rather than sexual pleasure.
Recent research is however saying that the best way to get pregnant is to adopt the old-fashioned approach - wild passionate sex like you did it when you first dated. Fertility experts have coined the term 'gourmet sex' - where the couple focuses on a satisfying experience, rather than just getting pregnant as the ultimate fertility treatment.
Experts feel that the sex should be as wild and thrilling as it was when the couple first got together, when they weren't obsessed with conceiving. An extra five minutes of foreplay before ejaculation can produce an extra 25 million sperm, according to experts. The more excited sperm will also be of a higher standard, meaning there is a greater chance of the sperm and egg fusing to create a new life.
Here's how you can enjoy gourmet sex:
1. Stop focusing only on sex; rather make time out to improve the quality of your relationship. Share fantasies and issues that you may have with each other. Communication is key in enjoying a happy relationship. Unleashing a fantasy adds a new dimension to your relationship, heightening the novelty-factor. Always discuss your sexual desires and don't ridicule a partner's fantasies. This will help in feeling more liberated in your relationship. Don't take each other for granted, compliment each other and try and overlook each others' short-comings. If your partner is looking fat in a sexy nightie, don't shun them, tell her how you love her curves and then gently say, 'honey, let's join a gymn together.' It will not shatter her confidence.
2. Preparation is integral before a satisfying sex romp. Always have a sensuous shower before you have sex. Pamper yourself so that you are feeling your best making love knowing. Also, invest in sexy lingerie, opting for silky innerwear that feels soft against the skin. A recent survey claimed most men found their women sexiest in a football or rugby shirt, so it's not so much what you wear, but how you put a look together with confidence that turns on a man. Move sensuously, because a woman's gait and eye contact is vital in making a man want him.
3. Before your big night, avoid a huge meal, lots of alcohol or any gas-inducing foods. Too much alcohol mars performance and spicy or too much food might give you gas.
4. Focus on foreplay. Read each other erotic stories. Dim the lights and switch off your cell phones and then whisper lines from the book into your lover's ear. They are sure to feel turned on as they hear you relate the scenario. It's bound to pre-empt the sexual high. Or try and pen your own erotic story to read to your beau. Act out certain imaginary chapters.
5. Make foreplay as adventurous as possible. Concentrate on the less obvious body parts. Make time to explore erogenous zones, such as the neck, nipples, back of the knees. Stroke with a feather, fingers, tongue or other body parts.
6. Blindfold your lover or let them blindfold you and dab some honey or chocolate sauce, somewhere on your body. Let your partner lick off the sweet juices using only their tongue. Exploring your body gives then a great opportunity to know you intimately.
7. Decorate your body in a variety of tasty foods, such as sliced strawberries, ice cream or melting chocolate. Invite your lover to dine out on you, starting with your sensitive areas such as the neck and your ankles.
8. Gourmet sex is about having fun , so both of you should give directions and be directed. Tell your partner exactly what you want them to do. Try out new sex moves, new places that lie beyond the bedroom that help you achieve a sexual high better than you have even imagined.
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