5 TIPS TO MASSAGE THE BODY

Happy Ending Massage

The truth of the matter is far more women receive erotic or sensual massages than the public is aware of.

This massage can focus on certain areas  like the breasts, lower abdomen, inner thighs near his/her private parts.

 Logically, anything that increases blood flow to the pelvis increases sensitivity, arousal.

First Back massage:"At first you're on your stomach, so they're just massaging your back, Lightly caress your S.O.'s neck, shoulders, arms, back, and buttocks with your fingertips  for at least five minutes.

Second Front Massage:" Then they turn you over. [My masseur] started massaging my breasts. My nipples got erect, so that must have sent him a signal. Nipple play is also important. "Nipple stimulation is processed in the same region of the brain as touch to the clitoris and penis, so lightly stimulating the area around the nipple (the areola) on both men and women can be very stimulating," says Laino. "It will increase blood flow to both the nipples and to the genital area. And don't forget the abs! This is a hot spot for both men and women—especially the area between the belly button and genitals, says Laino. "Massaging this area can make the pelvic floor muscles contract," she says. That sends blood flow straight to the genitals, she says. 

 He started rubbing me on the pressure points around my hips. Giving his or her inner thighs a rubdown. "The inner thighs, for ladies and gents, are very sensitive because they're so close to the genitals. He never actually touched my clitoris or vagina; it was just all around the area.  This guy was a master of temptation. He would get oh so close, closer... and then back away.

 My legs spread apart almost involuntarily as I waited for him to start the sexy part.

Ok, now that your S.O. is primed and ready, onto the good stuff:

For Him
Warm up some massage oil by rubbing it with both hands, then spread it all over his penis and testicles. Place one hand on the shaft of his penis, and start stroking it in an up and down motion, says Cadell. Meanwhile, use the other hand to gently roll his testicles in your palm. Do this in slow-mo for at least a few minutes.

Next, gently rub his penis with both hands as if rubbing a stick to make a fire, then gradually segue into a corkscrew motion, where one hand twists up while the other twists down.

Now concentrate on massaging his penis from top to bottom, covering the head and sliding your hands down to the base—one after another—in a fluid motion. "Do this for about 10 strokes and don't be surprised if he suddenly climaxes because this stroke makes him feel like he's inside a wet vagina," says Cadell. Me. Ow.

For Her
"On the female genitals, it's best to switch to a water-based lubricant because if oil gets inside the vagina, it can cause irritation," says Cadell. Make sure to warm the lube with your hands first before placing them in her vagina.  Nearly 50 percent of men and women who have used lube say that it makes it easier to have an orgasm

Start by focusing on the vulva, which is the outside visible area of the vagina, says Cadell. Gently rub the lube around her vaginal lips all the way down to her anus.

Gently part her outer lips with both of your thumbs, caressing them in circular motions for at least two minutes. Slide your thumbs up and down her outer lips until they're spread apart, then do the same with her inner lips. "The inner lips are more sensitive, so use less pressure," says Cadell. "Watch for her body language and for the swelling of her vaginal lips, which is a natural progression when a woman gets aroused."

Finally, gently slide your thumb and forefinger up and down the sides of the clitoris for about 10 strokes. Massage the head of the clitoris in circular motions using your forefinger and thumb. "You may feel it growing as it becomes more excited, and with the clitoris containing about 8,000 nerve fibers, don't be surprised if she has a body-melting, earth-shattering orgasm," says Cadell. Game. Set. Match.

Source of the article:: http://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-love/how-to-give-happy-ending-massage

TIPS TO MASSAGE THE BODY 

Massages are used for healing, relaxing, and tuning the body and is also a powerful means of arousing the body! One of the methods of body massage said to be in use during the reign of the Mughals is the full body massage in which the female would use her body to massage the body of her lover and vice versa. Of course, for a "full body" massage it required at least three more bodies to do the needful. Today, some call it the "sandwich massage" others just simply, Thai.
Well, since we can't really access such pleasures, it would be simpler to stick to what is possible. Which in this case means, your own dear partner. An evening spent massaging each others' bodies can turn out to be quite an event, provided of course, both of you are willing partners in the game. And yes, don't be afraid of experimenting and touching the part of the body that can give you maximum pleasure. Of course, as all things in life, build it up slow and steady. A mere oiling of the body followed by sex is not half as pleasurable as the teasing and the anticipation of the final act. Here are some massaging tips to awaken your body to hidden desires:

1. Shoulder Press with Face down: To start, oil your hands well. When in the mood, start with a shoulder press. Ask your lover to lie down on his/her tummy while you sit atop and press his/her shoulders. Avoid putting pressure on the spine. The idea here is to loosen up the body, to relax and enjoy your partner's hands on you. Use your finger pads to exert pressure. But goodness sake, don't dig your fingernails into the body!
2. Rake your finger pads up and down the torso: Having relaxed your partner's muscles you can now proceed to rake your fingers up and down the torso. Not with nails, please! Only finger pads, soft but firm. This would release the tension in the nerves and would further loosen up the body.
3.Lower Back & HIP massage: After the shoulders move down to the lower back kneading and palming the body as you go along. Again, be careful about not digging into the body. Instead, slide your palms, and knead the skin and muscles gently. Try to do it slowly and rhythmically. Use more oil if you think the skin of your partner and your hands require it. Lower back in men and shoulder in women contain the erogenous zones that excite the body. For women during pre-menstrual period a lower back massage can go a long way in getting rid of the tense muscles. While massaging this area, take special care of the sacrum - this is the triangular area between buttocks and the spine - very sensitive and responsive to touch. Lightly massage the area using small and circular strokes as you move lower to buttocks and the upper thighs.
4. Thigh might: Upper thighs are usually a major turn on. This is where you are bound to find yourself distracted. Follow your mood and the partner's pulse to explore this area slowly. It is all right at this stage to turn your partner over and give his/her genitals a gentle kneading. Remember to keep your hands well lubricated with water-based lubricants.
5. Massage, Neck and Ears: Encourage your lover to breathe in a deep and relaxing manner as you gently massage his or her neck, making small circles over the release points on the upper neck and about halfway up the ears. Now is a really good time to let the kissing begin. Finally  massage or caresse a woman's breasts using lots of oil on your palms
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